The Trick for When All You Hear is Winge, Winge, Winge!

The Trick When All You Hear is Winge, Winge, WInge

A few months back, I was due to catch up with someone who is super important to me and I was dreading it a little bit…

Normally our initial interactions are interesting, friendly and warm, but after about 30 minutes to an hour in it gets super negative and I’m drowning, gasping for air, trying to get outta there!

By the time we’re done I’m so drained I don’t feel like doing anything at all.

I start blaming them…and thinking how important it is to surround oneself with the right people. After all you are supposedly…

The average of the five people you spend the most time with. – Jim Rohn

Right? So why not get rid of them?

In some cases this would be the perfectly healthy thing to do, when its time to move on, the relationship is no longer serving you.

But what about those people you really care about – the ones you that you can’t or don’t want to rid of completely?

In my case, this is someone I really care about and want in my life, so I decided to take control.

Next time we met up, I set an intention ‘to be enthusiastic and to have fun’. This gave me focus and purpose for when things went downhill. When I found myself bored or drained, I would think of my intention and I would pull the conversation back to something energising and fun.

I began to curiously ask questions about a topic she loves and ask as many questions around it as possible.

To take charge of any conversation - ask questions!

She was instantly uplifted and so was I! Not only was I learning something new, she started asking questions about me – which was rare! And by the end of our catch up we both felt great and now we are the closest we have ever been.

The truth is, it is not the most negative or the most positive personality who dominates, but the most emotionally expressive person, that influences the other.

In other words, you can actively choose to uplift yourself and others. All you have to do is set an intention, so that you’re primed for a positive interaction, and ask curious questions – lead the way.

Now I’d love to hear from you!

In the comments below let me know what you do to protect yourself from negative influences, and how do you uplift others? Tell me what you’ve felt has gotten in your way in the past and share what you did to overcome this.

Remember to share it in as much detail and possible. Your story could be the one that inspires others to keep moving forward!

P.S. Know anyone who could benefit from this post? Please share it because you care!

Thank you so much for reading!

With love and appreciation.

Jessica x

4 thoughts on “The Trick for When All You Hear is Winge, Winge, Winge!”

  1. Its like you read my mind! You seem to know a lot about this, like you wrote the book on it or something. I think that you could do with some pics to drive the message home a bit, but instead of that, this is wonderful blog. A fantastic read. I will definitely be back.

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